Self respect is something I find girls need to learn. One must also keep in mind that self respect and well conceitedness are not the same thing. You have to have the self respect to keep who you are a live and to not bend to the wills of those who don't understand you. I say this because recently while discussing plans for today with a young man, he asks me what I would like to do and me being me said well I don't know. So his first response was "Well anything sexually?"... now this is the point where me being me yet again said, "I don't think you are the kind of guy I want to spend time with." Yes I had the self respect to say no and mean it. He wanted to know why I "suddenly" felt that way. Here is the thing about suddenly feeling a certain way... it really isn't sudden... if he had known me even a little bit he wouldn't even considered asking me that. He assumed I was like many other girls in the world today who will do anything with anyone they are even slightly interested in, and few girls will do it whether they are interested in you or not. I am very sure of myself. I don't have a problem shaking a guys hand and looking people straight in the eyes and holding it there. I am in fact good with people, but I will not stand stupidity when it comes to things like asking me out. You must have a plan and it better be a good one.
Sincerely,
Every girl who deserves respect.
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